I've seen so many cases, instances and scenarios where people just conclude about others as a result of their actions or reactions. Neglecting the reasons why some of these people do what they do, we quickly pass judgement on them.
Before you pass judgement on any person, attempt to practically put yourself in their shoes, conditions and states of mind. Yes! I used the word "attempt" because it is almost impossible to put your self in someone's state of mind.
If at the end, you are able to get into these conditions, ask yourself what you would have done. Be very sincere with yourself and you will realise that it's not been as easy for that person.
So, no matter what people do or say to you, try first to understand their level of understanding, their level of exposure (which may not be same as yours), their mental situations. By seeking to understand before being understood, you become greater.
Enjoy!
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